Not Just Another Day


My dad would be 81 years old today. I am grateful for all the years we had, but I certainly would not mind if I’d had more. Dad was a very wise man andhad a way with words. I find myself using his words of wisdom every day.
Dad was generous with his love, and his money. He loved to help others and did not take lightly the responsibility to share what he had with others in a way that was respectful, encouraging, and not hurtful.  One of my favorite quotes was “If you give someone a car, but they can’t afford insurance or gas, have you really helped them?” The other statement that comes to mind every day is “be reasonable.” Dad believed in moderation (except when it came to his grandchildren).
I strive to be a daughter he would be proud of every single day in all that I say and do, but the best thing is knowing Dad also believed in grace, and I know he loved me unconditionally.
In honor of dad I will try to help in ways that preserve dignity and do not hinder, to practice moderation, and to give grace and love unconditionally. 

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